“Can we take a step back here?”
A colleague once brought in this gem of a book, 100 Tricks to Appear Smart in Meetings, poking fun at business speak and meeting habits. They're spot on for the most part, but this one has always irked me:
Now, I don't know about you, but I have seen countless situations where that question was sorely missing from the conversation. We have a bias to jumping right into actions, solutions, and activities when it wouldn't hurt to first articulate the desired outcome:
Job postings going out and candidates being interviewed without anyone articulating what the desired outcome of the hire would be
Splashy business initiatives fizzling out because it was never articulated what they were supposed to achieve.
The dreaded reorg to "shake things up"
Great technological undertakings (migrations, rewrites) wasting time and not moving any business-relevant needle
Don't just do something; stand there
For a great breakdown of the right way to plan a project versus the typical way, here is David Allen, author of Getting Things Done, giving a TED Talk about Natural versus Unnatural Planning
Ideally, of course, you’d ask that question right at the beginning, and not after much time has already been wasted.